Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week.
You will always be second place. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday. And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me.
What a bozza topic. Also, I want to be fully supportive of his dreams and what he wants to become. It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. I think the only thing that can possibly be worse is if he was working in a different country.
The religious differences between you two are a deal-breaking fault. If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god.